Couple's Inspiration

Are you in a relationship where your partner inspires you to be great? To be grand? To be better? What a blessing!

Or are you waiting on something good to happen? Are you waiting for them to make that move? Are you waiting for them to inspire you to be great? How motivating are you to your significant other?

Any relationship filled with reoccurring issues of anger/resentment, blame and guilt is STANDING STILL. In order to move forward sometimes YOU have to lead and sometimes YOU have to be willing to follow. Follow & Lead each other to greatness. If a relationship is lackadaisical, and stagnant someone has to make the move to be an example of productive relationship building. As a couple YOU CAN move mountains together, create, grow, produce, build, and reform IF both of you want to. If you are currently co-existing in a lack luster couple hood and YOU know it, the time is now to be pro-active in transitioning into a functioning positive partnership. Your community, family, and society at large deserve to have their members impact the world positively.

It can be hard when we don't feel equipped with the tools to be better or aren't aware of how much improvement can actually happen. Let's engage in positive connections with other pro-community/family entities & organizations that are supportive of your relationship's success. Seek guidance from couples who have withstood the test of time and endured the brilliant highs and inevitable lows that is a RELATIONSHIP. Search for help from relevant couple/family therapist and counselors. Go back and look at your family history. Your ancestry will teach you a lot about your recent past/present/future. There is so much wisdom to be found in the ancient teachings of your ancestors. If you know you need help then do something about it! Therapy can help assess and deal with the family dysfunction that many of us are unknowingly perpetuating and bringing into our relationships.

You can have a successful relationship. You don't have to do everything the way your parents did. Things don't have to be the way the media or your friends or the people at work tell you it is or should be. You can create the life you want. Relationships are not what you see on TV.

The two of you are present and are currently making history. It's your time.


Be a mountain or lean on one. ~Somali Proverb

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